Significant age difference dating

When a friend opts to date someone who is old enough to be their parent, a common response is to see if the decision passes the “half their age plus seven” test.

significant age difference dating-86

The older you get, the wider the permissible age gap: a 50-year-old can venture as old as 86. In practice, research conducted by Christian Rudder, co-founder of OKCupid, a dating website, suggests that when it comes to age gaps, men and women have slightly different ideas.

While female users look for men roughly the same age as them (or perhaps a year or two older) men prefer women in their early twenties, regardless of their own age.

While pursuing my first significantly older boyfriend, I too remember thinking that we were on equal playing fields sexually and intellectually.

I believed, as Spacey’s accuser put it, that “I’d won the jackpot.” I’m not so sure anymore, nor am I sure how to separate the damaging myths about gay predators that I’ve absorbed throughout my life with what actually occurred. The beautifully rendered gay love story just happens to feature a seven-year age gap, and portrays the ideal of a relationship with a significant age difference.

“Every time I’ve ever told the story, I am compelled to tell people how seductive I was,” he told the writer.

At the time of the affair, he said, “I would’ve told you that relationship was completely consensual.

Something about the kind of person who opts into a marriage with a large age gap could be driving the higher divorce rates, rather than the age gap itself.

A bright young thing considering a silver fox should also take heart from a study by Britain’s Office of National Statistics.

But there are also wistful, fantastical elements to the movie which, it’s worth noting, was based on a book written by a straight man and cast with straight leads.

Tags: , ,