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So I have tried to emphasize that fixing their hair etc.does not make them beautiful, because they are beautiful no matter what.Reply If a 15 year old dresses well; fine, acknowledge it, good for her, she probably had some say in the matter.

Compliments on appearance are easy to make and they don’t lead to validating the whole little person. I have twin girls that are about to turn four years old. My sister-in-law shared an important thought with me when our daughters, who are only 6 months apart, were very young.

She said that she didn’t want her daughter to think that fixing her hair/painted fingernails/ jewelry or anything else MADE her beautiful, she wanted her to feel beautiful no matter what.

As a parent, we could help by introducing our child by name and an interest.

For example, “This is Amelia and she loves drawing different animals and plants.” or “This is Nikita and she loves doing puzzles.” This would then prompt the person to delve deeper or provide a general comment about the particular interest, rather than appearance which is an easy default. It reinforces to our child(ren) that we recognize and honor their interest as well as encourages the adult (or kid for that matter) to engage them.

As a father I often compliment my daughters and son because I want to help build self-esteem, be it around their outfit, artwork, politeness or anything else.

I am going to be much more mindful of what I choose to highlight now based on this article.

Alas, it was about girls and what they wore, and how their wardrobe choices defined their identities. Here’s to changing the world, one little girl at a time.

” Purplicious was Maya’s pick and a new one to me, as Maya snuggled next to me on the sofa and proudly read aloud every word, about our heroine who loves pink but is tormented by a group of girls at school who only wear black.

Even bright, successful college women say they’d rather be hot than smart. The recently named Bloom one of the top five celebrity attorneys in Los Angeles. I think telling kids they picked a great outfit or have great taste is unisex. (This next part isn’t in direct reply to your comment…) I loved the article and think it makes a great point! There’s a world of difference between “You’re so cute!

A Miami mom just died from cosmetic surgery, leaving behind two teenagers. Teaching girls that their appearance is the first thing you notice tells them that looks are more important than anything. Her eyes got bigger, and the practiced, polite facial expression gave way to genuine excitement over this topic. An Alternative Perspective: How to Raise Little Girls Who Love Their Looks Femimommy Blog Lately, I’ve been telling my daughter when she comes up with a cool outfit. ” and “Those are great shoes” when a kid is clearly excited to be walking around in silver boots.

But I appreciate the message here, and I hope to integrate this more deeply into our lives daily. Reply I want reply to what you said because I think there is a nuance here that is important.

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