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My parents were the kind who attended every ballet recital and graduation.Of course, Mom and Dad didn't have a perfect marriage. When they made it past their 27th wedding anniversary, I assumed they were thinking about retiring, not about splitting up. On their own for the first time in 27 years, Mom and Dad needed guidance.
They may also welcome the new person’s companionship for their parent.
For some, the parent’s joy about a new and emotionally rewarding connection is thrilling.
Looking back, it seemed as if Mom and Dad had been faking it—which cheapened all my childhood memories. I've come to envy young children going through a divorce. Mom expected me to talk negatively about Dad with her. Ten minutes later the phone would ring, and it would be Dad. On the stereo in my dad's studio apartment is a photograph of me and my sisters in the same battered silver frame it was in when it was in our living room.
They wanted me to hear about every jab and knockout punch they'd exchanged. It was one of the few things Dad threw into his bag when he left Mom's house a year ago. He stopped sleeping through the night after he and Mom separated.
Dad had wanted me to come over to his new place to show me his Fender Strat, a guitar he had just bought. I didn't realize how little alone time I'd spent with my father until the split. Mom, with her hair long and blond and pushed back in a headband.
Now, when I'm alone with him, I worry we won't have enough to say. Mom, who now wears plunging necklines even when she cleans the kitchen.
Every divorce is a trying experience for the couple and the impact of this dissolution resonates deeply with children as well.
Adult children have to reorient themselves to the new family constellation and work through their disappointment, disillusionment, hurts, and even fears about their own marriages.
Though these concerns are impolite to voice, they may sometime contribute to the children’s mistrust of the new companion.
Nothing tested me more in my adult life than my parents' divorce. I had moved out of my childhood home to attend college several years before.
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